What is "true love"?
Have you ever thought that you were in love? I know I did when I did, early in my adolescence. But was it really love? I do not want to say with certainty, but I know that the Bible describes love best. Does it in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, which says
"Love is patient, love art, not envy, does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, not selfish, is not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not enjoysin evil but rejoices with the truth. Always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. "
These are all characteristics of true love. Love is also a relationship. The purest form of a love relationship is that of Jesus Christ. We need to look for the characteristics of Jesus in another person, in order to find true love.
So many times today, so we have other characteristics such as appearance, popularity, or personality for us to win someseveral. This leads to convince us that the "true love" and then we will be in many ways the rare gift that we have with the wrong person.
Love is a feeling, but also a commitment and a dedication to someone else. When you become real, and is dedicated to something that is not required to wait. Christ was so devoted to us, who gave his life. So we have our "true love" is dedicated, that we can not wait to make them our gift more rare.
Similarly, sex and love are not the same thing. Sexis a completion of two people forever. The Bible says that is part of a conjugal relationship, another gift given by God
Sex before marriage can only lead to pain and grief, because they are not the characteristics of the relationship of true love include the commitment and dedication. If you remember, most people who find themselves in sex before marriage is in part to make a whim or for a long night of drinking. You are not in one form or dedicated to the person perpetratedthat their shares rare gift.
I have a vivid memory is to collect a portion of a True Love Waits too. The True Love Waits campaign began in 1993. I was 13 years. Standing in about the second pew. I was asked to make a card in order to remain morally pure until the sign of marriage. I signed the paper and committed in my heart, to remain morally pure. So, my best friend, Laura. We had a meeting even say then that we would like each other to account. Next yearLaura away. I was in constant contact with her, and so it was a bit 'difficult to draw any liability of others. But after almost 2 years ago, late at night, I had just arrived home from a date with my friend when the phone rang. I expected that my friend who always called me after he got home. However, it was not, was Laura said, in tears, told me that he had broken his promise and betray their rare gift that night. Theyto me how bad he regretted having shared how betrayed she felt that she was afraid, alone, and dirt. It hurt so bad he had done and I wanted to reach through the phone line and make it better. But there was nothing I could do.
See if you have sex outside of marriage, the person can so easily and freely walk away from you, because there is no true commitment between you two. That night, Laura's friend had to go home, they were not married, shewere young, stupid and made a mistake. They dug up later and there was nothing for them to cling to any chance to feel that love and devotion.
I can tell you that my friend with a broken heart, and I can tell you that "true love" and not expect love sickness. If you want to be with a broken heart, you give away rare gift to the wrong person too soon.
Therefore, how to avoid the Heartbreak occurring in your life? Now, the Bible says, "Do not be deceived, bad company corrupts goodCharacter. "1 Corinthians 15:33
When I was in school I was always put more of my friends and colleagues, under pressure, like my friend is in some pre-marital sex.
If you surround with sins that are in sin and therefore can also be taken into sin. I know this is sometimes unavoidable. However, be vigilant and aware of people with whom to spend your time. People automatically think that they are like you who hang around. And, like my fatheralways said, you are in the sense of guilt by association. " In addition, it should stop trying. Everyone experiences this temptation. But how do you decide that you respond to what is important. The Bible says, "No temptation has more than what is common to man and God is faithful, and he does not leave you on the stand for you might be tempted to take". 1. I Corinthians 10:13 (NIV)
It 'important that you are ready, you know how to avoid this temptation. For example, how you spend your timeThinking and dwelling on what will become what you are doing. Your opinion would be yes your actions. Psychologists have proven true. If you live in lusting after the opposite sex, then you will be led into temptation and sin, in fact. It is a reminder that "what is true, whatever is noble, what is right, what is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable if anything is excellent and praiseworthy, is thinking about these things." Philippians 4:8
True Loveis really worth the wait. It is not only in the rarest of gifts your spouse should be rewarded in their life on your wedding night, but you can understand and appreciate the commitment and dedication that you have with each other, from that date. And only the true love of Christ, much better.
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